FIVE FIRE BRAND WAYS TO BRING BACK THE ROMANCE

Getting the romance back in your marriage may not be as easy as it sounds, most times after we get married we tend to forget the reason why we got married in the first place, we allow the romance and passion we felt while dating die because we know that after all we married now so we stop investing into our emotional back account. 

Picture this, most of us have banks were we deposit money and we visit from time to time to make withdrawals ,we even call our account officers to confirm how our funds is been managed.

My question now is, is there anyone who goes to the bank to withdraw money when he knows he has no outstanding balance? Lets dive in plus a book recommendation. Enjoy the evening.

This same principle applies to marriage and romance. We need to invest and deposit in our emotional bank account so as to be able to make demands for it when the time come.

I will like to share with you a few tips to help restore that glow into your marriage and to recommend a book that I read as a newly married woman. I hope this will help someone out.

Romance is often lost in our busy routines, and now that the romantic holiday is over, is romance a lost art in your marriage? There is a huge difference between sex and romance, but they are a perfect recipe for a steamy, passionate and delightful married life.

Here are 5 tips that will keep the sparks flying and have smiling all day long

1. Explore new territory, write down your fantasies and put them in a jar take turn to pick out from the jar and act out the fantasy. This will help you get to know each other more and build romance, intimacy, trust and  great sex.

2.  Build up sexual tension during the day by sending each other suggestive messages and phone calls so that you both can’t wait for work to be over.

3. be desirable. Throw away the big underwear and get sexy ones. Women get into that short and stop the wrapper tying all day.

4. be approachable, seize the moment and lose yourself.  Let your character be like a painting in a canvas.

5. If you are on a tight budget, keep it simple at home and plan for the night. Candles, a romantic movie to watch and a glass of wine are very romantic.  On Saturdays stay in bed an extra hour to cuddle and share thoughts about your family and future together.

Remember that being creative and having fun is like an adventure, it will remind you of why you fell in love in the first place. It is important to note that this might not be easy to achieve but it is worth the try, make the love in your marriage powerful and lasting.

Recommended reading:

Courtship After Marriage: Romance Can Last a Lifetime

by Zig Ziglar

Whether you have been married two years, fifty years, or anywhere in between, this book offers couples commonsense advice on how to keep romance alive in their relationships. To those who wonder, "Can I still rekindle that spark? "Ziglar says, "Yes, you can!" This how-to guide to happily-ever-after combines convincing statistics, advice from experts, and humorous anecdotes from Ziglar's own experience. Inside you'll find:


Six steps for starting over - no matter how long you've been married Tips for improving communication Ways to keep sexual intimacy satisfying and exciting Rules for a fair fight A frank discussion of the importance of trust
Ziglar also includes a sixty-six-question survey to evaluate the state of your marriage. Take it before and after you read this book - you'll see the difference!